Queen Melamiyn- Dream Big
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Take a few seconds before you proceed with this article and breathe deeply. Clear your current thoughts for a second.
Recall back to your very first memories. Who were you as a child? How did you view the world? What did you like to do alone and what did you want when no one was watching? Now think about where you are in life now, who you are as a person, and how that has changed with time. We all seem to forget how perfectly imperfect we all were as children; how effortlessly together we already were fresh out the womb. Our inner child is already sure of who we are. But, some of us just need a little reminder sometimes.
Consider all the battles you’ve endured and how they’ve changed you every single time just ever so slightly. Family fights and fall outs, social media conditioning, friends, life, you…they all embody your final form. However, it is up to you to decide how exactly they make their marks in your character. We all knew right from wrong by age 10, at least. But somewhere along the line, we become *gasps* human and all those things do in fact, influence and add to our person. Here’s a cliché and secret frequently said and rarely taken to heart: you are your biggest friend or greatest enemy. And I do mean every single time. It’s our jobs, our BUSINESS to mind. It is not what; but, how we allow our experiences and environment to alter the nature of our inner child, that ultimately sets the stones in the footsteps of our destiny. Accept responsibility for yourself again. Purge all the wrongs that you’ve grown so comfortable with ingesting. Purify your heart to reset your energy. The key to maintaining your new nature is protecting your energy. I cannot stress that enough.
You need a clean space to be productive. A clean room, a clean heart, a clean mind. There and only there can you truly reflect on who you are, what you want out of this lifetime, and what you need to do to get there? As we are young, we tend to fall for the illusion that “We have the rest of our lives to figure this life shit out” and to be brutally honest, that simply is just not the case. What you do now, how you move and interact with people, and how you treat yourself presently will set the tone for both your very near and far future. Moreover, not a thing in this life is guaranteed outside of the highs and lows and taxes of living of course. Train your mind to embrace new challenges and obstacles as tests that only you have the real answers to pass. Only you can fail you. You require your full and undivided attention to win at life and excel at your dreams. Do yourself a huge favor and practice tuning out the noise to life. Detach from things and people that lack purpose, relaxation, or productivity. The mindset of “paper chasing” is a rat race. You need your full mental health to even lace up your running shoes with your idols.
Everyone was born to win. The world just tries its damnedest to make you believe its playing favorites. Fight to win for you. Set goals. Short term and long term. Start small, maybe 3-4 things you can accomplish in the next 7 days. Then after you hit those, set higher ones for longer terms. If you need a standard, set 3 big goals for yourself oriented towards what you want the most* out of life and make plans to execute and make it happen. Stop holding yourself back. I believe in you as much as I believe in me as we are all one. We are one human race with the same cognitive and empathetic potential and I truly believe you have the tools you need to succeed all the way, already with you. Conquer today. And do it again tomorrow. Love yourself on rainy days and on the best of summer nights. You are most important. Never lose sight of that. The only time you fail in life is when you stop trying to win. So why put off winning for tomorrow when you can start this very second? Motivate yourself because there is no safety wheels in life. AND IF THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU ARE NOT ACCEPTING TO YOUR CHANGE IN DIRECTION, CHANGE THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU AND PROCEED WITH FULL FORCE.
“Our greatest fear is not that we are incompetent. Our greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is not our light that frightens us, but our darkness that frightens us. Your playing small does nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure about you.”
Your dreams are waiting on you. So, what are you waiting on??? GO. RUN.
-Much love, Queen Melamiyn